Nigerian ladies are quite one of the most interesting characters if not the most predictive. Its well known that every man desire something from a woman before making the decision to go on a chase but the actual issue here is what is this unique property that triggers the chasing attitude of a man as if he is a lion going for a hunt.
This has led some women into making personal observations and has landed in various conclusions some will say its my beauty, my face, my shape. hmm quite interesting that's why i mentioned earlier that Nigerian girls are interesting and predictive.
But before making my own conclusion on this i also had to do a lot of researches and interviews with some reasonable Nigerians both ladies and men because i had to figure out what she as a lady thinks! and what he as a guy actually desire! before such conclusion could be made. My review might contradict yours that is why we have the comment box below. If you have also tried this research you would figure out that though all men are not the same, there is still some similarities.
Now if you as a girl think that men desire beauty, then why do ugly girls have boyfriends even when they don't hide under make ups though beauty is in the eyes of the beholder but my dear don't be deceived "who don fine don fine and who don wowo don wowo". So if he prefers an ugly girl to a beautiful girl then there must be something special and unique. lets find out!
As i earlier said i had to organize interviews with some ladies on social media and also physical contact. After the whole interview thing all what i could actually figure out of what they were saying was my beauty, the size of my breast, my shape, my ukwu (so Nigerians call it), my moves, my eyes, my this my that. so on.
Many girls have because of what a man desire in them "ladies" done a lot of harm to their body. Yes that's true!. Today she is dark in complexion the next week she don turn white (Oyibo), Some ladies even shapen their body especially the celebrities who turn their breast and Bombs into balloons. Now is writing tattoos also one of the things ladies thing men desire in them? because i have noticed a lot ladies drawing tattoos.
Back then when i was quite young, I loved watching movies and whenever we saw a girl with tattoos on her body we always assumed that she was either a prostitute or a bad girl following boss so we called it then and many Nigerians did same. But now what has happened? is Tattoos now part of fashion? or its an act of ignorance?. Same goes for the boys!!.
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| What they post on Social Media |
Social Media whoa. This is one of the funniest thing Nigerian girls now do and i would say for men sake. I once saw a friend of mine post a photo on Facebook with make up, painting the face with various colors. Guess what the tag was? Well she wrote "Just woke up and still on my bed" so she don de make up sleep abi?. Now there is a fact ladies seem to be neglecting. No too rush i go talk am later.
Do you know the amount of money spent on make up kits by women?. If you are a lady you should know. Am not trying to be insultive but am just making you know something very important and easy which i know would help Nigerian ladies a lot in terms of what men want. Back to what i said earlier there are various men and they desire various things.
Actually to my observation a man who doesn't really see any unique character in you and still want to go on a chase like a lion on a hunt, then he is definitely flirting with you or probably a player. Its only a player that will meet you at a club without seeing your face and still want to date you.
So in this article i won't be focusing on what a male player desire in you rather on what a serious gentleman who is ready to put that golden ring on your fingers without even asking about your virginity status. Sounds funny right? well after reading everything here you will know why i made such statement. Back to the ladies. I wrote an article Reasons why you should not lose your virginity as a teenager. I think you should read the article after you do, you should definitely know why he should engage you without knowing if you are a virgin.
When you are considering choosing a man out of many other men to be your boyfriend or husband what do you keep in mind? don't you desire something? well i know you do and that's the same way men do keep in mind what they desire in a woman. Recently female celebrities are now getting married successfully in the likes of Mercy Johnson Okojie and others. I think its because some has started doing what is right.
The Western ladies especially those found on social medias and TV reality shows has also kinda miss led lot of Nigerians. In a the western world a child has his/her right to choose whether to go for an errand or not, also an 18-year old girl can date a boy with her parents being aware but is it same over here in Nigeria and Africa at large?. Every reasonable gentle man respects culture, norms and ethics. And culture doesn't support what you learn from the westerners.
The things a gentle man really want from a women are very common and known by all but not practiced. When i started having a little difficulty in composing this article i had to reach out to someone elderly. Then he said yes its true we men like it when a woman is beautiful and attractive and as that is the first wave that blows us to her crib. But that's where the beauty stop. He then gave an example on how he met a girl who was really beautiful and well shaped, that made the first impression. As a boy he went on a chase just for him to make an introduction, he was shock as the girl's accent was a no go area. Illiteracy could be seen in her words and expressions that killed everything
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| What they Now call Fashion |
What would you do if you proposed to a girl and the next thing your boyfriends start telling you the number of times they slept with her or even her friends telling you what she has done. Well they may say the past is not the future well things can be forgiven but things can not be forgotten. A wise Architect knows despite the foundation not being the beauty of the building, it determines how the structure would look.
This has to do with morality and decency in everything you do. You might think the men love it yes they actually love it just as a wise Nigerian man would say am taking my own share. Maybe that's why they buy you all you want to take their share. And all these will come back to decide and hurt in the future. So practicing morality from now is a great step to meeting that real man.
You are at home or in school spending your father's and boyfriend's money. Buying all the latest jewelries in the beauty shops, driving the latest rides and forgetting the fact that you have to be hard working or would you as a girl marry a boy who isn't hard working? then if you won't why should he?
There are so many things ladies do to attract men but attracting a man shouldn't be your goal because not everything that glitters is gold. Expensive clothes, make up packs, shoes and jewelries doesn't mean you are expensive. Fashion comes and goes. So shall all those that live in it. Life is more than the clothes. Your mistakes of today won't just affect you but everything and everyone that have you as a source later in Life.
In short, a man don't want you for your gold, clothes, beauty, big breasts rather he wants you for something that is priceless. Don't sell it before finding the right man for you. What you don't want in Others, you should not practice it.
I believe i have just been able to explain to you what Nigerian Ladies Think Men Desire and What men actually desire in ladies. Use the comment box to share you feelings.
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